get the message

phrase

: understand something that is not being said directly
When she didn't return my phone calls, I finally got the message. [=finally understood that she did not want to talk to me]

Examples of get the message in a Sentence

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Residents in Jefferson and Clear Creek counties are getting the message. — Jennifer Oldham, Denver Post, 8 Oct. 2026 Hartley and Dome say that getting the message to students is important. — Amaia Gavica, Miami Herald, 5 Oct. 2026 No clue who was blowing the whistle the whole time, but, clearly, nobody got the message. — Zach Dean Outkick, FOXNews.com, 3 Oct. 2026 The public got the message, with some parents keeping their children indoors while police and herpetologists scoured that backyard for the snake. — Hannah Fry, Los Angeles Times, 1 Oct. 2026 See All Example Sentences for get the message

Word History

First Known Use

1959, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of get the message was in 1959

Cite this Entry

“Get the message.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/get%20the%20message. Accessed 14 Oct. 2026.

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