get the message

phrase

: understand something that is not being said directly
When she didn't return my phone calls, I finally got the message. [=finally understood that she did not want to talk to me]

Examples of get the message in a Sentence

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Yet statistics and statements claiming that the problem is big—perhaps even existential for science—don’t really get the message across. — Benjamin Skuse, IEEE Spectrum, 27 Oct. 2026 The cousin was thankful, but the Rev got the message that the family didn’t need financial help. — Literary Hub, 16 Oct. 2026 Residents in Jefferson and Clear Creek counties are getting the message. — Jennifer Oldham, Denver Post, 8 Oct. 2026 Hartley and Dome say that getting the message to students is important. — Amaia Gavica, Miami Herald, 5 Oct. 2026 See All Example Sentences for get the message

Word History

First Known Use

1959, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of get the message was in 1959

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“Get the message.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/get%20the%20message. Accessed 4 Nov. 2026.

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